Killing a Marriage by a Thousand Paper Cuts

Marriage isn’t football or a courtroom, there is no place for a good defense. What are your typical reactions to being called on something that you have done – or failed to do? These are some of the more common defensive bylines, but this clearly doesn’t represent an exhaustive list. It’s only exhaustive for those on the […]
Cloak and Dagger

I would venture to say that most marriages operate by the “cloak and dagger” method. What I mean by this is that one’s honest feelings, thoughts, motivations are more often than not “cloaked’ from the partner. There can be many justifications assigned to this withholding behavior. Not wanting to ‘hurt’ the other’s feelings, fearing their […]